Diary Continued- Month of April 2014 from Facebook Posts

April 1-----------Today was a day of struggling for me with missing Mark. I had paperwork to do and it brought back all kinds of memories. My daughter and I had already made plans the night before to take the grandkids to the park. So that helped being out with them. Then on the way back home, I began struggling again. I began praying and God just seemed to put His arms around me and comfort me. It's so wonderful how God understands and cares for us. "Blessed be God, even the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies and the God of all comfort," II Cor. 1:3

 April 2----------Thankful for a good day today. I was able to spend some time with my mother and father in love which was a nice time of fellowship. I had some more firsts, too. On the way to their house I drove through the park where Mark and I used to take walks during our dating days. Memories-memories. Thank you, God, for giving me such a wonderful husband to spend almost 40 years with. Thank you he no longer suffers in pain and thank you for getting us through another day. "Precious in the sight of the Lord is the death of his saints." Psalm 116:15

 April 3---------Tonight I am reflecting on God's blessings. It was so good to have lunch today with a dear friend who was my roommate at BJ a few years back. She actually introduced me to Mark. It was great catching up on things and a real blessing to see her. Also, had the first of going back to Mark's work and seeing friends/family there. Of course, didn't make it out of there without a kleenex or two. So thankful for understanding friends and family and for the people God puts in our lives each day to encourage us along.

 April 6--------Thankful for a full day with enjoying church services and fellowship with church family and friends. Just haven't been able to get through all of the church services without some tears shed. It's usually a song that will trigger it. Then the memories come and well, then the tears. Tomorrow will be 3 weeks. It's so hard to believe. In some ways it just doesn't seem that long and in others it seems like forever. Regardless, God has been with me each step of the way. Even in my weak moments, His love and grace have carried me through. Thank you, dear Lord, for in my weakness you give me that extra strength I need and in my sadness your love brings me joy.

April 9--------- Today I had a second and it wasn't much better than my first. My sister had been visiting with me for a few days. So good to have her with me. I took her back home today. The trip down was okay because she was with me, but the trip back home was quite lonely and then I missed my sweet hubby so much. Another opportunity to turn my focus to Jesus and rest in Him. He did gave me strength and peace for yet another step along the way. "I need thee every hour, most gracious Lord; no tender voice like thine can peace afford. Refrain:I need thee, O I need thee; every hour I need thee; O bless me now, my Savior, I come to thee."

April 12--------- For some reason the past few days have been extremely hard and I have missed Mark something fierce. There are going to be a lot of "firsts" coming up and I don't know if that's part of it. I can say without a doubt that God has not let me down and continues to bless even though my mind gets weak. He has been so faithful and in Him I have strength. Praise God for His faithfulness everyday! "They are new every morning: great is thy faithfulness." Lam. 3:23


April 13--------- Thank you all for your prayers today. God did give us a wonderful day to remember my sweet husband's 60th birthday. I was thinking how thankful I am that Mark was born, so thankful for the years God blessed me with being his wife and how thankful he's now in glory with our Saviour and out of pain and suffering. As Jessica, our daughter, put it- he's having the best birthday ever!!!!! "Looking for that blessed hope, and the glorious appearing of the great God and our Saviour Jesus Christ;" Titus 2:13

 April 15---------Please pray for a sweet friend of mine, Sandy Dye, who lost her husband this past Saturday. Definitely know what she's going through right now. Her husband knew Jesus, too, so that will be her hope and comfort. The visitation is tomorrow and the funeral is on Thursday. Prayers for her would be appreciated. I can with all confidence say that God is there for her as He's been for me. "He that dwelleth in the secret place of the most High shall abide under the shadow of the Almighty. I will say of the Lord, He is my refuge and my fortress: my God; in him will I trust." Psalms 91:1-2

April 17---------- Today is a month since my sweetheart has been gone. I can't say it's any easier or that I miss him any less probably I miss him more but I can say that God's wondrous and marvelous grace grows sweeter and He gives me more as I need it. 
"He giveth more grace as our burdens grow greater,
He sendeth more strength as our labors increase;
To added afflictions He addeth His mercy,
To multiplied trials He multiplies peace.
When we have exhausted our store of endurance,
When our strength has failed ere the day is half done,
When we reach the end of our hoarded resources
Our Father’s full giving is only begun.
Fear not that thy need shall exceed His provision,
Our God ever yearns His resources to share;
Lean hard on the arm everlasting, availing;
The Father both thee and thy load will upbear.
His love has no limits, His grace has no measure,
His power no boundary known unto men;
For out of His infinite riches in Jesus
HE GIVETH, AND GIVETH, AND GIVETH AGAIN." Annie Flint wrote that beautiful song and what a message it delivers. Yes, my Father does give me grace again and again!

April 22----------One of those really "missing him" days today!!! Those who experienced losing a loved one know exactly what I mean. I've been visiting my sister and brother-in-law near to where Mark and I have some land and a camper trailer which we stayed at fairly regularly so we could help out my parents. They are now in an assisted living. Anyway, just going past the trailer really overwhelmed me with too many memories. Also, going to my parent's empty house that kind of did me in, too. Just not a really good day. I need that extra measure of grace at this time which I know God will supply. When I get my focus looking at earthly things instead of heavenly, this happens. Help me, dear Jesus, to stay focused on what you did for us at Calvary and your triumphant Resurrection. Thank you that I can look to you in my weakest moments and find comfort and strength!

April 26---------- So thankful for such a beautiful day that God gave us and for His continued grace in my life! "By whom also we have access by faith into this grace wherein we stand, and rejoice in hope of the glory of God." Rom. 5:2

April 30----------Darlene Lawrence  was feeling like I wish he was here as I was taking a walk down memory lane but thankful his journey in this life of pain has ended and he's with Jesus now. Having one of those lonely moments. "Lord, help me look for you and your purposes in the lonely moments." with Mark Lawrence.

Diary for Me-March Posts from Facebook

Sort of as a diary for me, I'm going to put some posts from Facebook on my blog starting back in March.  This post will only have March 2014.

March 17------With sadness I'm writing this post but also with gladness of heart that the suffering of my one and only love is with his Saviour. Mark left this world in a very peaceful sleep. Yesterday we were on the mountaintop thinking Mark had a great and possibly full recovery. He has now totally recovered because now his body is perfect and he is with the Lord. Thank you all for your prayers and please continue to pray for us in the days ahead because I will definitely miss my love and best friend. Mark was so special and I couldn't have asked for a better life long partner. In June we would have been married 40 years. I thank God for him and thank God that he is with the Lord and suffers no more. As we said before, to God be the Glory. We're thankful for the 39+ years that He gave me Mark who blessed my life more than I could ever say!

March 18------- "...The Lord is my Rock, and my fortress, and my deliverer." II Sam. 22:2

March 19-----Just wanted to thank each one of you who have prayed and given words of encouragement. I'm so overwhelmed with all the outpouring of love shown to me and the family. I have a blessing I would like to share that God sent my way. A friend stopped by that I have only known for a few years and we were talking about my grandchildren. Nothing unusual for a grandma, right?! Anyhow, I had mentioned about how we didn't know if we were even going to have any grandchildren at all because both my daughter-in-love and daughter had several miscarriages. Then the Lord blessed us with these 11 precious ones. I then remarked that I was so glad that Mark had been able to see the last one born before he died. Then she commented, and "Now he's seen the others in Heaven." Wow! That hit me as such a big blessing! I know it might not seem huge to some but God used those words to encourage my heart when I needed it. The next few days are going to be rough on me and the family with the visitation and the funeral. We so appreciate your prayers for us. I know we have an awesome God and He's going to see us through. I will post the obituary from Howze as soon as they make it available.


Visitation for Mark - March 20---6:00-8:00 pm @ Howze Mortuary
 
March 20------This song came to mind this morning.

When comes to the weary a blessèd release,
When upward we pass to His kingdom of peace,
When free from the woes that on earth we must bear,
We’ll say “good night” here, but “good morning” up there.

Refrain

Good morning up there where Christ is the Light,
Good morning up there where cometh no night;
When we step from this earth to God’s Heaven so fair,
We’ll say “good night” here but “good morning” up there.

When fadeth the day and dark shadows draw nigh,
With Christ close at hand, it is not death to die;
He’ll wipe every tear, roll away every care;
We’ll say “good night” here, but “good morning” up there.

Refrain

When home lights we see shining brightly above,
Where we shall be soon, through His wonderful love,
We’ll praise Him Who called us His Heaven to share,
We’ll say “good night” here, but “good morning” up there.

Refrain

by Lizzie DeArmond

Mark's Homegoing Memorial - March 21 @ 2:00pm at Bible Baptist Church

March 21------- Looking unto Jesus the author and finisher of our faith; who for the joy that was set before him endured the cross, despising the shame, and is set down at the right hand of the throne of God.-Hebrews 12:2- This verse blessed my heart today.

A good friend shared this with me. A portion of the song "Finally Home"
"But just think of stepping on shore and finding it Heaven! of touching a hand and finding it God's! of breathing new air and finding it celestial!
of waking up in glory and finding it home!" ---(That's what Mark did on Monday morning.)

Thanks, Dawn, for sharing that with me. It meant so much!

March 22-------I was so thankful for the wonderful service for him, too, and that Christ was glorified. I just had to share your sweet post.--Comment to my daughter regarding her post on FB.

I'm thankful for the wonderful memorial service for Dad. Above all, Christ was honored and glorified and that's exactly what Dad would have wanted because he wanted to glorify Christ in his life. I'm thankful for the godly example he was in my life and in the lives of all those he knew. Today was not easy and the weeks, months, and years ahead will be hard without him here on this earth, but I am so happy that he is with his Savior and that I will see him again one day. Even through all the tears, God has given me indescribable peace and I praise Him for it!

March 23------- The following is a verse from a song my grandmother had written many years ago and of course, I was thinking of Mark.

"This is not death I'm facing, but it's life forevermore.
This is not the end I'm nearing, but it's entering Heaven's door.
For the way ahead is brighter than it's ever been before.
For it's glory, yes, it's glory over on the eternal shore!

March 24--------Hope you all don't get tired of me posting things. I used to not do this too often but now it helps some. Here's another song my grandmother wrote. Mark never got to meet her in this life but I'm sure he knows her now.

"I want to see Jesus and look on His face,
and tell Him that I love Him by His infinite grace
And go to that land not made by man.
I want to see Jesus, don't you?
Chorus- I want to see Jesus, I want to see Him. I want to see Jesus. Don't You?" 

I'm singing the song in my head as I write it. My grandmother had sung the song to my aunt and she composed the music.

 March 25--------"God looked around the garden and found an empty space. He looked down upon the earth, and saw your tired face. He put His arms around you and lifted you to rest. God’s garden must be beautiful for He only takes the best. He knew that you were weary, And He knew you were in pain. He knew that you would never be well on earth again. He saw the roads were getting rough, And the hills were hard to climb. So He closed your weary eyelids, and whispered peace be thine. It broke our hearts to lose you, But you did not go alone…For part of us went with you the day God called you home" author unknown

 "Now the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace in believing, that ye may abound in hope, through the power of the Holy Ghost." Romans 15:13

Thank you, God, for seeing us through another day and giving us peace all along the way.

 March 26------This was an eventful day. As all who have lost ones so dear to you, there are the firsts like the first time you do something without that special one you love. Well, Mark and I have taken many trips down to visit and take care of my parents who live 2 hours away. Since my mom had a stroke 5+ years ago there were even more frequent trips, and Mark made every single trip with me. Yesterday with God's help, I made the trip by myself. My sweet daughter offered to go with me but I felt this was one I really needed to do myself. God carried me through. I'm so thankful for the wonderful children God has given us and their spouses and the grandchildren who have been so caring and helpful to me. My son and his sweet family stayed an extra day just to get me through the first week. Even though Mark is no longer with me, I am blessed with his legacy! Also, I'm blessed with all the prayers and encouragement from family and friends. I saw a quote that I fully agree with. "Lord, I miss my husband terribly but choose to thank you for his life."

March 27-------- Day 10 since the passing of my sweet Mark. Today I decided to take a trip to Walmart. Here we go again. Mark usually always went with me and waited in the van while I shopped. All through the store I had a big lump in my throat seeing things he liked and knew if I were to run into anybody I knew that I would probably start crying. I didn't meet up with anybody. As soon as I got to the van and of course, no Mark, well that's when the tears began. You all know that I'm not crying for him because he's having a wonderful time with Jesus but I'm just missing him so badly. I was feeling pretty low and to see how God comforts us, he sent my next door neighbor/friends by and they brought just the encouraging words that I needed. I guess it should never amaze us how God works and how He never leaves us comfortless! A good quote for me to remember--"Lord, when I'm dwelling on my losses, bring me back to counting blessings."

March 28------------ Today God comforted my heart in a different way. Tonight I was reflecting over things that have happened which is nothing unusual. I remember the day I took Mark's wheelchair out of the van and thought well that would be the last time I would do that. It made me sad because I no longer had him with me but how wonderful that he won't ever need a wheelchair again. I also began to think about how we often thought that God would heal Mark in this life and what a glorious testimony that would be especially when he had suffered for 7 years. Then God seemed to show me that Mark's life and his faithfulness through those 7 years of suffering was a glorious testimony in itself. Mark was always such a shining example of someone who in the midst of adversity kept his eyes focused on Christ and he remained faithful to the end. Not to say he didn't have some discouragements along the way but he always trusted that God knew what was best for him. Reflecting on these things gave me great peace and comfort. God always knows what we need and when we need it. Thank you, Lord, for bringing these things to mind and giving me this peace and comfort.

March 29---------Had the blessing of keeping 5 of our grandchildren today. It just seemed so different because this was the first time I've kept them since Mark's passing. He always had so much fun with them. This was one of those missing him badly times when I thought how he always loved having them over. I enjoyed my day with the kids anyway and realize that this is how it will be from now on. God has given me grace for everything I have faced so far and I know He will continue to do so. BTW, I've started a blog for anyone who might be interested. It's the following: //thiswidowswalk.blogspot.com/ 
Thank you, God, for your amazing grace that we have no matter what we face.

March 31------- Today it will be 2 weeks ago that I lost my hubby. Yesterday, after the morning church service, I visited his grave site. That's just one of those human things you do to feel better even though you know they aren't there. I'm not sure if it did make me feel much better. I did get a lot of encouragement from the church services and from our church family/friends. You never know what God will use to give you what you need in your life. He is always faithful and I continue to look to Him. The song "Lord, I Need You" comes to mind. Thank you, God, for giving us the things we need to encourage us daily.

A Big Distraction was a Blessing in Disguise

I had mentioned in the previous post regarding our anniversary.  June 14, 1974 was our wedding day.  This would have been a memorable year as it would have been 40 for us.  One thing which was a big blessing last week was that we had the marker for the grave on order and it was to be here by our anniversary.  At the beginning of that week I had called about it since it hadn't been placed.  I was told that it might not be ready until the following week which would have been after the anniversary date.  I mentioned that I was hoping to have it by our anniversary which was Saturday, June 14.   The marker was placed on June 12.  God gave us the desires of our heart.  We took pictures at the graveside with the new marker and new arrangement of flowers on June 14 with my daughter, son-in-law and grandchildren.  After that we took a nice walk which was very enjoyable.  I had to get home to give our dog her medication.

Now for the distraction.  Several weeks ago my dog had developed  a condition of vertigo.  The medical term is Vestibular Disease. I had taken her to the vet and she was to be on this medication for about 3 weeks.  She was on week 2 at the time and doing some better.  I had left her on our front porch and thought she would be fine there until I got home.  I thought I had made it secure for her not to get down the ramp and off the porch because she would get under our house.  When I got home she was not on the porch or anywhere around.  Somehow she had managed to get through the railings and took a 4 foot leap down to the ground.  Needless to say, I was quite worried about her.  She did not turn up for six hours and I could only imagine what had happened to her.  When she finally came out from under the house, she was fine.  I thank God for taking care of her.  When I realized that most of the afternoon was spent worrying about our dog, I thought if that had not happened I would probably have missed Mark so very much.  Of course, I did miss him but this distraction did help me to focus on something else as well.  God always knows what's best for us and He has continually been there to guide me through.    "Praise God from Whom All Blessings Flow"

Looking to the Days Ahead

Not sure what's going on.  Today was a productive and good day being able to spend time with family.  Somehow memories hit several times throughout the day and the tears flowed.  I know part of the reason is because I'm remembering how much 40 years ago this week I was so looking forward to marrying Mark.  We were on our countdown days.  Today would have been only 4 days away.  We were looking forward to not having to be separated again, as each night when he dropped me off to my apartment, we would say goodnight and goodbye until tomorrow.  We saw each other every single day but always hated to part at night. I'm not sure I gave a lot of thought to that week after we were married because I was content and happily married.  I sure remember it clearly now.  We had such a wonderful marriage, and God was so good to bless me with such a wonderful loving husband who I dearly love/loved.  Not sure of God's plan or purpose for my life now, but I know just to live daily for Him and wait on Him. 

Psalm 27:14    "Wait on the Lord: be of good courage, and He shall strengthen thine heart: wait, I say, on the Lord."

The Measure of a Life

I was reading a quote the other day that said, "The measure of a life is not its duration but its donation."    Of course, that reminded me of Mark.   His life on this earth was short compared to many but during his lifetime, he lived it fully serving the Lord.  He was always concerned about people and how he could help them.   He definitely was always concerned for his family.  It did bother him when he became disabled and couldn't help the way he had in the past.  He tried his best to serve God  even when he was suffering in pain.  From my point of view and in my eyes, he lived a life well pleasing to God.  I lived with him for almost 40 years so I guess I could be a good judge.  Our 40th anniversary would have been June 14.  I'm sure in some ways this week will be a little tough with the memories, but God has given me grace over and over again and I know He'll get me through this week.

One Month

I'm still here walking the walk.  It's just been rather busy the past week.  It seems there's been a lot to keep up with lately but thankful for the strength God has given and how He has helped me through some really "missing my hubby times" which is pretty much all the time.  Last week I was anticipating his birthday, the first without him, of course, and I think it was getting me down.  But to show how God gives us the grace,  the day of his birthday was much better than the two days before.  I know a lot of people were praying for us that day.  We did miss him dearly but we made it through.  Since this is now a new day, yesterday was a month of him passing.  In some ways it doesn't seem it's been that long and others it seems like forever.  I know with all my times of feeling down that God will lift me up because I trust His Word and He is always faithful!!!!  This is a wondrous time of the year to remember what Christ did for us on the cross, how He was buried and that He arose again.  We serve a risen Saviour!  Praise God for all He has done, is doing and will continue to do for us!

Busy Day

I've been blessed to have my sister visiting with me for a few days.  It's been nice to have her here.   She had some shopping to do today so we were out and about for a little while.  We went to the grave to put flowers on it.  We also had some time to do some bird watching in the yard.  Hoping to get an Indigo Bunting again this year.  It's great to stay busy.   Still have had my moments of tears.  Guess I will for a good while yet.  When something like this happens, you replay in your mind how the events unfolded.  I always come up with how gracious God was in how it all happened.  He  knew how things would affect me and allowed everything to happen as it did so I could handle it better.  To share one thing, it would have been so hard to see Mark struggling for breath or to have passed on with his eyes open but he peacefully went in his sleep, eyes closed.  So how much better can that get for him?  He went to sleep here and woke up to see Jesus.  That's so comforting to me but I still can't help missing him very much.  So I'll lean on the Everlasting Arms of Jesus.

John 14:18

“I will not leave you comfortless; I will come to you.

Signing One Name

I guess the title makes you wonder what it means.  My hurdle today was signing a card and it's no longer Mom and Dad to our kids or Nana and Papa/Grandpa to the grandchildren or Mark and Darlene to everyone else.  When I sign now, it's just me, (Mom, Nana or Darlene).  That really hit hard.  Just the thought of leaving Mark out isn't easy. He's just such a big part of my life right now.  This is another thing I'll lean on God to help me through.  Thank you, God, for all the years I was able to sign our names on things and help me now as it will just be me.  I know God will help me through this as He has always given me strength before.

Psalms 31:24 - Be of good courage, and he shall strengthen your heart, all ye that hope in the LORD.

Day 18

This now begins Day 18 of this journey that I wouldn't have chosen, humanly speaking,  but it is the way God has ordained for me to go at least for now.  I was happy and content being married and relying on my husband.  As God's child, I know that if He chose this way for me, it has to be the best for me.  One thing I can say.  When I've been low, God has lifted me up and when I felt I couldn't go on, He carried me through.   I have learned that I did lean a lot on my husband instead of leaning more on the Lord.  God had blessed me with a Godly man.  Mark was full of wisdom and knowledge.  I had looked to my husband for spiritual advice as well as advice of earthly things.  He always seemed to know what was best for me.   I do miss talking with him and finding his opinion of various things.  This is when I'll need to look to Christ which  I should have been doing more of, anyway.  God definitely knows our weaknesses and how frail we are.  Some words in the song,  "My Desire to be Like Jesus" just came to mind.  His Spirit fill me, His love o'er-whelm me.  Lord help me to be strong in you and look to you for all my needs.

Struggling Day Made Better

Today started out well.  I actually had the best night sleep since Mark's passing.  I was doing okay and then I had some paperwork to fill out.  It brought back a lot of memories and I began missing Mark so much.  Fortunately, I had planned to meet my daughter and grandchildren at the park.  It did me good to get out and be with them.  It was such a beautiful day, too.  Then on the way home, of course, I start thinking again.  When I got home, it was so empty.  I just poured out my heart to the Lord and what comfort I did receive.   When we focus on Christ  and His love for us, our little struggles seem to ease.  I say little struggles because when you put them in perspective that's what they are.  However, as they're happening they seem like a mountain. 

My sister gave me a poem that I thought was special.  It follows:

Life to be Continued in Heaven

Dear friends of mine-- Do not weep;

For our dear Jesus His promises keep.

He went to prepare a mansion fair

That we, dear friends, some day will share.

Of all the beauty we've shared on earth

It's nothing compared to Heavens' Birth.



Still another thing, my dear friends,

All earthly pain has come to an end.

So as I sit at Jesus' feet

Waiting my friends in Heaven to meet.

I'll just enjoy my family here

And praise Our Saviour for the earth we've shared.



So thanks to you, dear friend of mine

Who has bridged my journey

To this beautiful time,

Life is continuing in Heaven.

by Eula Godwin

My Testimony about Mark

I felt I would post this for those who weren't at Mark's funeral.  It was hard to put down just a few words for a life well lived serving Christ.  Somehow, though, God had laid on my heart to share how faithful a life Mark lived through all the pain he had suffered the last 7 years.  We never really knew exactly what Mark had. He had been to many doctors and had lots of tests run and for all his symptoms, Lymes Disease seemed to fit what he had.  Whatever he had, he had chronic pain and sometimes it was almost unbearable.  We kept hoping and praying that he would be healed and thought it would be in this life.  Mark is now completely healed and with Jesus. I would also like to share how gracious God was to Mark in his passing.  Mark had mentioned to me a few times how nice it would be go to sleep in this life and wake up in Heaven.  That's exactly how it happened to him.  Also, he said he didn't want to die alone and it would be nice if I was beside him.  Well, he got that desire as well.  Then recently, because of having the surgery out of town, he had said that he didn't want to die out town.  Well, he died at his earthly home and went to his heavenly home.  This gave me comfort to know that he did get those desires of his heart.  Now the testimony follows:

Today as we are celebrating Mark's homegoing, it's very difficult to summarize almost 40 years in just a few minutes of time. If ever there was a giving and caring person, it was Mark. I know because I could see it daily in his life. He was a God honoring man and lived his whole life serving and praising God. The last 7 years have been difficult for him but his faith never wavered. At times he would struggle with not being able to do the things he had been able to do in the past but who wouldn't when your pain almost becomes unbearable. We never really understood why Mark had this trial on earth but we saw God's grace always carry him through. He kept his eyes focused on Jesus who he loved so much. He was a devoted family man which was pretty evident to all. He always wanted to see that my needs and even wants were met if possible. I know he loved me dearly as I do him. It is hard when you lose the one dearest on earth to you. Mark loved his children and grandchildren and always wanted the best in their lives. He so wanted all his grandchildren to know Jesus. He knew without a doubt that his children knew Jesus because their lives definitely reflect it. Mark's love to his parents and my parents was so evident as well. He loved all the family both his and mine. He had a closeness with his brothers. He loved our church family. If Mark was your friend, you had a friend indeed. Mark was so special in every way. He had a quick wit and sense of humor that was unsurpassed. We miss him so and will miss him much in the days, months and years ahead but are so thankful that he suffers no more.

Mark was always searching the scriptures to find the answers he needed. Mark was a man full of knowledge and wisdom. If you knew Mark well, you know what an inquisitive nature he had. Now all his questions have been answered. Mark would often say my salvation will be complete when I see my Saviour. He looked forward to that day and now it has come. It's hard to put in just a few words all the qualities of Mark. He was a great spiritual leader, an excellent example of faith to his children and grandchildren and all who knew him. He was the most wonderful husband to me and of course, he was my very best friend. I could not have asked God for any better and I'm so blessed that He gave me Mark for almost 40 years. I wish there could have been more time with him but that wasn't in God's plan. If Mark could be here today, he would want everyone here to have the personal relationship that he had with Jesus Christ. He never wanted to be recognized for things he did. He just wanted to live a simple life. His life's work on this side has ended and now he is enjoying all the glories of Heaven. Most importantly He is with Jesus the author and finisher of his faith. We can say of Mark that he has fought a good fight, he has finished his course, and he has kept the faith. Thank you, God, for giving us Mark and thank you for his wonderful testimony and the many lives he has touched! We thank you that his suffering has ceased and the legs that weren't mobile in this life now leap for joy! To God be the Glory!

My Journey Begins

On March 17, 2014, I began a whole new chapter in my life.  My status had changed from being married to being a widow.  I had enjoyed my lot in life to that point.  I was happily married to the most wonderful man in the world to me for almost 40 years. On June 14 we would have been married 40 years.  You just never can imagine the feeling of  emptiness until it happens to you.  He was my best half and my very best friend.  We had always been fairly private people but somehow I felt doing a blog would help me since I always shared everything with my honey.  We were inseparable which is another reason that this permanent separation in this life is so extremely hard.  All that being said, I can say without a doubt that God has been my strength and comfort.  He has now gotten me through 12 days. It has not been easy because I miss him so terribly much.  There have been times, though, that I could just sense a peace that only God could give me. I thank God for giving me my husband for this amount of time and thankful for all the great times we had.  God blessed our family with two wonderful children and then their wonderful spouses and now we have 11 precious grandchildren.  Our family totalled 17 but now we have one missing who was so important to all of us. So thus my journey of widowhood begins.